March 27, 2025

Article highlights: 

  • Ugly shoes
  • Santa in the sky

In a recent dream, the world appeared as a fantasy madcap treasure chase… like the movie “It’s a Mad Mad Mad Mad World”. There were clues and treasures in odd places like the shoe counter at Mayfair department store (where all the shoes were ugly!)  Or at the complaints desk in a basement where the line was long and people were loud, whiny and starting to get ugly.   

In each such place in the dream, my madcap teammates were trying very hard to find the clues for the treasured objects.  I, however, seemed to stand aside, not participating in the fun.  I was just observing the chaos with raised eyebrows until, for instance, the shoe counter girl struck up a conversation with me.  

“All the shoes are so ugly,” I bluntly observed and she responded in lowered voice, “Oh not true!  They appear to be, but look more closely.”  

When I did I discovered my feet to be suddenly coved with the most incredible handmade shoes I’d ever seen.! When I looked at her in shocked delight she smiled wisely before turning away.  

Then off we went to the next adventure point. At each place there was someone who showed me the secret to seeing the beauty in the mess or chaos.  Each time I felt like I did when I was five or six on Christmas morning, all a-tingle. 

In fact as I was beginning to wake but still dreaming, I remembered being five, coming home from a Christmas Eve movie with my family.  I remembered that leaving the theater my dad bent down to me, pointing to the sky, saying “Look! There goes Santa on his delivery rounds, see the sleigh? There’s Rudolf!  And look, Santa’s waving at you!”

And I saw it all!   There was the sleigh flying, Rudy’s nose beaming, all the reindeer weaving through the sky, the huge bag of presents in the back of the sleigh and Santa waving just to me and heading to my house next!  I felt wonderful, all alive inside and out.  

In part, the point of the dream was about finding the amazing, the beautiful, even in a world full of chaos.   However, the real point of both the dream and the Santa story is about body chemistry.  It’s about fostering that child-like capacity of imagination and sight that creates the body chemistry that allowed me to see the wonder in the skies.  

For our well-being we need a creative, robust and determined frame of mind that aids the body to produce positive anticipation and even joy instead of dread and fear or fatigue and illness.  

I admit that’s doctorate level coursework, but that’s why we all got our Master degrees in Spiritual Approaches, right? 

I’m doing my best to keep my mind strong, my eyes on the good as well as the challenges, my hands in the magic and to let my heart be free.  And I’m doing my best not to lose sight of wonder.  I think I’m doing pretty well in this, most of the time.  How are you doing?

Though it can be up and down, I know that you’re also doing your best to achieve the same.

We’re in it together, dear heart, 

Lovingly,
💜 Mayet

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