Light-sharing Pt 1 – Helping Loved Ones in Trouble

Article Highlights:

• Antiquated notions
• A special message
• An invite from Spirit

Dear Helping Hands,

In a client session a question came up about a troubling situation all of us have faced. Later, in my meditation time, the message was given to me again somewhat changed and refined.  It was suggested I share it here as part of on-going instruction about light-sharing.  

They said many of our notions about light-sharing are antiquated, some are misguided.  Most have their roots in former religious or spiritual beliefs about spreading the gospel.  They said this was not at all what was intended when, for instance, the apostles were told to go forth and share.  

At that time, there was no organized religious gospel to share.  They were to share the “good news,” knowledge of the light within.  We too feel the call to share our light, but what does that really mean, what does it look like in action?  It has nothing to do with conversion, of course.

To explore light-sharing I’m starting a new series. It will apparently be a series that includes wisdom from inter-dimensional guides.  We won’t dwell on this series every week, but from time to time I’ll be given a transmission about it. 

Today we have a special message about what does and doesn’t assist loved ones in trouble.  Next week it’s a fresh take on how to realize your purpose.  

As mentioned, this message from spirit first came for a client with a family member in severe crisis.  When it’s a close friend or family member, we want to help.  We feel we could, or should.  

We may also get rather caught up in it – it’s not always easy to feel neutral in such situations.  We probably have agendas and history with the person and/or family.  The knack is to stay out of the story.

How To Help others – What Works, What Doesn’t?

If you desire to help another, we would suggest you first ask why.  Examine your attachments and agendas.  Notice that you already have a story about what’s happening and why and what should happen instead.  Notice where you think you have the answers.  These must be set aside.

Then ask what the real goal is, dear one. The real goal is always simple: facilitating soul-driven movement and growth for the highest possible outcome.

We would say that the tendency for people first is to speculate about what’s going on and why.  And to talk it over with others, copiously.  This is not helpful, in fact it is the opposite of helpful.  

This storytelling strengthens the limitations within the situation.  It is important you realize this, for most of you have not integrated it.  In your speculation you cause harm.  To do no harm, you must avoid attaching to the story.

We would like to suggest that you instead give them the same respect you would wish to have. In such a moment you would wish that people not speculate and analyze and tell stories to themselves about you, or gossip these speculations with others.  Is this not so?  

It feels invasive when done to you and in truth it causes the person’s field to close in self-protection.  It decreases probabilities for their greatest personal growth and it slows their progress.  It makes things even harder for them.  By doing it you become part of the problem – this is what we wish you to fully understand.

This is choosing the path of your ego – focusing on your own egoic opinions about what and why their trouble is occurring and how you can “help” them get it right. Your speculations are entirely of your imagining and generally far less accurate than you are willing to realize – however well-informed you feel yourself to be.  

And we say with certainty that such stories help little, matter less, cause harm and are not lightwork.  For light workers, you have responsibilities regarding this.  It is time to move beyond this tendency.

What is far more important than your opinions and speculations is that you support your friend who is struggling or your family member in trouble.  What kind of support? The kind that helps create options and openings in their lives, that sparks serendipity for them, that facilitates miracles. 

To assist in this type of positive shift, first remember your own difficult passages and feel loving kindness and compassion and heartfelt intent for their good.  It is only the love within you, coupled with the heart’s wisdom, that can facilitate this. 

You offer these simply and easily by sending loving energy and solace, by sharing your Light.  Do this by connecting Higher Self to Higher Self as we have suggested before.  Let your prayer be that they hear their Higher Self’s guidance better and that they be able to respond to the wishes and plans of their Soul for their life, and that all that is needed for this will appear in their life.  

This prayerful intent on your part greatly supports them to have clearer thots and feelings and to take important actions that might otherwise be unthinkable or too difficult for them.  You are sending them the light of grace that facilitates this.

In moments of great difficulty, one is often limited or overwhelmed by stress, pain, confusion, or fear.  What you can do is offer important “booster” energy to assist their body in stress and drawn solutions to them.

So you stay out of the story.  Forget about what you think and do the subtle work.  Add the energetic support needed, the loving intent and energy.  Imagine the most wonderful outcomes for your loved one and hold those images unfailingly for them. 

Doing this energizes new potentials and facilitates movement far more upward lifting and hopeful than they might manage on their own.  And this is the most desirable and wonderful of assistance, though they may never know you were part of it happening.  

An example: Your sister is having a problem that she’s faced before because she keeps recreating it in her life.  The whole family gets stirred up when she’s in it.  Instead of engaging in frustrated conversations with your siblings, remember the times you’ve been caught in repeating patterns yourself.  Then, rather than thinking about how she always does this and why, imagine her getting beyond it as you have moved beyond so many things.  That energy of successful change is part of your field – share that energy.  Each time the matter comes up with family members do not engage.  Instead, picture her happier, imagine this becoming her spiritual awakening in some way.  Feel her relief at being free of this troublesome pattern.  This is powerful to do on another’s behalf.  Do you see?

Work with the energy of love and light in simple and humble ways.  This is how to assist in the miracles you all hope are possible as light-sharers and healers. 

We understand it can be hard to fully believe in the veracity of the method because it involves subtle energies and you often do not get to see the outcome.  But it works, it truly does work.  You are all at levels of mastery that assures that it does work. So assist as you have been taught and prepared to do, dear master.

This is what you have intended for yourselves for the benefit of others and your world.  That is why you have so beautifully and long walked the spiritual paths you have, to have this very subtle mastery for yourselves and others and for a world depending on this very assistance from you.

You realize, of course, that this applies as well to your broader lightwork: do not speculate and engage in stories and gossip about “will it be war, what will happen to the financial markets or this or that politician?”  Do not run around worrying and seeking answers to these again and again.  That is speculation and storytelling.  It makes you as much a part of the problem as anyone else.

Instead, do the work that works, the light-sharing.  It is vital work that you are called to do. This is the way the Lightworker is meant to operate now.  It is a way of beauty and grace, a way of miracle and positive change.  This is a more pure form of assisting humanity in its progression.

It is also our way of working and we invite you to truly join us in this.  Working together in this more pure way, so much more is possible.

~*~

I thought this was an amazing instruction clarifying what being a lightworker actually means.  It gives us the more pure form.  We have been so blessed because those on the inner have worked with us in this way, beautifully helping us advance in our abilities and understanding. It worked for us.  We can offer the same to others.  

I love the ending, how they  invite us to adopt this more pure way of assisting and thus truly work with them going forward.  That’s a wonderful invitation.  Count me in.

~ ❤️☀️Mayet Leilani
PS – the beautify drawing used today is by Charlie Mackesy

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