Dear Anne,

constancyWith Venus aspected as it is right now, there is a heightened interest in love relationships, a greater yearning for loving partnership as well as more committed friendships.

Noticing this, a topic came to mind about certain aspects of personal mastery that are essential for attracting the right relationships: Trust, Loyalty and Constancy in Loving. If you would like to have more satisfying friendships or deeply satisfying personal partnerships, here is a great personal mastery to explore and integrate further.

Certainly you long to receive trust, loyalty and commitment in loving, you hope for friends and partners who possess these qualities. Do you ask where you stand in your integration of these as well? It is a good question to ask because what you embody of course affects what you value and attract.

One thing to be understood here is about your ability to love others and yourself. It refers to an aspect of commitment that I’d call constancy in loving. First regarding your constancy and trustworthiness in intimate relationships and in friendships. And second your constancy for the Big Love of all – your own expression of the love that flows THROUGH all things. As you begin to value and integrate emotional loyalty (which is constancy,) you become able to offer emotional support and respect.

Now let’s speak of trust and begin with the quest for self-trust regarding Love. This quest leads you to achieve openness, trustworthiness, and the willingness to be seen. These open you to the ability to be emotionally spontaneous, unguarded, and expansive with others. And as you value them properly and then open in trust, you grow in your ability to receive them. Offering these qualities first to yourself, you receive the comfort, support and respect you then can share.

Deeply committed relationships receive focus now whether among family, friends, co-workers or in the community. Offer loyalty to those you love and do so with an open heart. Trust that this is the right approach.

This does not mean you have to partner with someone or invite them into your life. And it does not mean you should forfeit your own needs. But do open to more trust and constancy, consider where you might be lacking in loyalty, and ponder what constancy means to you and how you offer or withhold it in friendship and partnership.

Open dearest one, to deep relationship with your own Soul and your own human capacities. Your gifts of generosity, nurture and intimacy, your profound capacity for happiness, your fine ability to communicate love and beauty are needed now. Step up to more unconditional love through trust, loyalty, and constancy, and bloom a generosity of love for yourself, for others and for your service to all.

Resolve issues of loyalty to family and other deep relationships, where you can. Break through any residual pride, and receive the gift of giving with constancy to others. And let’s say, with a smile: give to yourself first and foremost by being loyal to that which you are. The rewards are immediate and great!

Committed to our time together ♥️ 😊 ♥️,
Mayet Ma Hulili Leilani

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