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  • Love problems
  • Love’s secret
  • Love’s surrender

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Valentine’s Day is soon and our thoughts circle around love – it is a day we focus on love.  Whether on this day or any other, whether we focus on loving another or loving ourselves, there is a problem regarding love.  

Love’s problem is one we cannot overcome – at least not the way we generally go about it.  The problem with love is we can never fully and finally achieve it as long as we are loving in 3D.

3D love is something we need to do – making love an action verb. So we try to do it, we keep trying to love ourselves and others, and hoping to be loved.

As long as we approach it in 3D, we’ll sometimes do better at this and other times fall short. We’ll sometimes have success, feeling love for ourselves or another, but then we or they will shift or tilt, love will be disturbed – and so it goes.

3D = duality and that’s the way duality is – it’s the constant movement between the two opposites of a matter.  In this case, between love and not love, between feeling it and not feeling it, having or not having it.

Duality is an exploration.  Thus, we can only keep trying, seeking, wanting, learning, failing, achieving.  You have seen this in your own life.  You may achieve more love, learning to hold closer to the “desirable” side of the opposites, but it is never fully stable.  It makes you wonder finally, “What is the secret to love?”

Here is the secret to love:
Love is not something to do, 
it is not something to give or receive.  
Love is not something to have.

Love is what you are.

We think of love as a feeling.  It can express through feeling, through emotion, but Love is not the feeling, it is not the emotion – those are just conduits.  Love also is not a state of being that we must try to achieve.  

Love is not a feeling,
Love is not a thing.  
Love is what we are.

I cannot fulfill my desire to be loved or my desire to love myself until I realize the Love I Am.  When I relinquish my 3D way of perceiving love, when I am ready to end my tireless explorations of the vast territory between love/not love, then something more is possible.  I can realize all I am.

The task is not to search for love or hope and pray for love. 
The task is to surrender to what we already are.
The world over, this is what is meant by
The surrender to Love

Leaving the duality – releasing myself from that journey – I can fall deep into the Love that I am.  In the surrender to Love, my world changes profoundly.  For if I am Love, I can only see with the eyes of Love.

The Christ – a master of love – did not heal by seeing the world of pain and responding to it with compassion.  He didn’t weep for people, he rejoiced in them, seeing only Love.  He was Love realized.  The absoluteness of Love was what healed others.

This is a profound thing.  The mind rebels with ego’s conundrums and questions, with past experience, but that is all 3D.  Surrender to the truth of Love, the truth of what you are, and this falls away.

The opportunity of Love 
is to live in surrender to what you are.
Are you ready for The Surrender to Love?

The longing for Love rises continuously and strongly from your Soul.  It is calling you.  What to?  It’s not just calling you to a moment of love, or a partner for love.  It is a longing that is calling you home, home to who you really are, home to Love.

You came from Love
you return to Love
without ever leaving Love at all
For Love is what you are.

Happy Valentine’s Day, Love! 

X💜Mayet MaHulili Leilani 

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