Praise and Your Patootie – An Invitation to Make Someone’s Day
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- A good idea for you
- Light up someone’s day
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Spiritual people sometimes have this odd idea that we shouldn’t enjoy compliments, positive feedback, praise. It’s important not to “need” it if we’re more evolved, right? Enjoying it isn’t humble, either.
That’s an odd idea to me. It makes no sense for a species as communal as human beings. Sure, praise can get all wrapped around our pahooties and go straight to our heads. But that’s what imbalance does with everything, so the problem is the imbalance, not the compliment.
Receiving praise and compliments is good, it encourages us, lifts our spirits, makes our day sometimes. It seems to me we could enjoy giving and receiving a whole lot more of it. And, hey, we do “need” it. It’s good for us, it helps us grow. We often long for it secretly maybe because there’s not enough to go around much of the time…because of the odd idea.
We don’t need to criticize ourselves for wanting it or liking it, for gosh sakes. What an odd idea. Odd OLDE idea. By the way, I’m constantly struck by how very many odd ideas we have all the time, aren’t you? Useless, outdated, or never-were-true, don’t-work, under-the-radar, hard-to-notice OLDE ideas. Mini-mind churns them out like gospel, often.
The idea that compliments could make someone’s head swell is a funny one to picture, isn’t it? Not that it can’t happen, but not in most circumstances, really. Many people are hungry for lack of enough encouragement and praise.
Sincere compliments are a wonderful way to share light, to spread love, to open hearts, including our own. No need for me to carry on and on here, we all know this even though we get distracted or self-involved and forget.
So I thought I’d just remind us today of what a nice thing, a fun thing it is to do. It nourishes both the giver and receiver. This week let’s be more forthcoming with praise, a kind word. Let’s spread a little more thoughtful and encouraging observation as we go about our day – let’s really notice people and enjoy them more. It think it would be a fun thing to do together. If you agree, join me this week in making someone’s day. (more…)
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