My Life’s Changing, How About Yours?
August 29, 2024
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- Big changes in my life
- The need to reinvent yourself and/or your life
There are some big changes going on in my life, how about yours? I’ll be talking more about my changes in the next weeks but for today I wanted to say something about this more generally.
It seems to be a time of change not only for me but for many I know and hear from. Divorce, marriage, moving, jobs ending, jobs starting, new babies, loss of friends and family, health challenges, new projects… it’s the relatively bigger life-stuff.
For instance, my work is changing and I’m not yet sure exactly what my new work picture will be. But I’m in a reinvention for sure. Many of us find ourselves needing – or wanting – to reinvent ourselves and our lives right now.
So here’s the thing about big changes and reinventions. There’s ALWAYS a lot of unknown within that, which means there’s no road map. Because we first have to get a sense of the new landscape and gain a clearer understanding about where we are headed within it. Which is a discovery process.
That means a lot of questioning, planning, responding, deciding. That’s stressful. Unavoidably stressful. AND we can find ourselves drowning in details, details, details. In such periods, overwhelm is ever-present. You know what I’m talking about right?
I’m not going to belabor this today; I just wanted to mention it’s happening for a lot of us, maybe you too.
How to get through it with the very best outcome? Well, I’m getting a lot of messages from my life about one thing that’s needed. AND it’s not something people such as ourselves necessarily agree with, or want to hear.
Yesterday I got the message again in the form of a quote from Elizabeth Gilbert – author of Eat, Pray, Love. It came as an indirect answer to my question about how to proceed when I’d been overwhelmed by all the details of change. Here’s what she said:
“You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your blessings.”
Yes, manifestation takes considerable action and application. We new agers sometimes give up too easily. Some of you lucky few have fistfuls of determination, unlimited energy, and love being challenged. The rest of us want things to be easy, to “manifest” without much effort.
I think we’ve been taught a lot of silly stuff that’s even caused us to think we’re spiritual failures if things aren’t easy. We take it as a sign and give up. We struggle with this.
Rebirth is what it is. There’s a lot of compression and pressure in the birth-canal. It’s not all that easy getting born… or reborn. Or birthing a new project or phase of life.
It’s being suggested to me that we need to face up to this, step up, and “participate relentlessly in the manifestations” of our own blessings.
That’s the message I’m getting. So I’m sucking it up and getting on with it whether I feel like it or not. And often I don’t feel like it, but I’m doing it anyway, no matter the resistance I feel.
Doing that – funnily enough – I’m finding that things are getting a little easier. Isn’t THAT interesting? It takes sweat and focus to pave Easy Street, apparently.
That’s my bit of musing for this week. Feel free to let me know how it’s going for you…
With renewed determination and action,
Mayet
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