When It Feels Very Hard to Love Someone – An Exercise in Love

Article Highlights:

  • A return to Love
  • An exercise in Love
  • Love regained

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As often happens when I run my session specials there are people who are saving for a session but didn’t quite make it, etc. I always decide to extend the deadline for them and then in fairness to all, extend for all. So I’m keeping the special price for the new session for a month or two longer until I give notice. And I’ve extended the price to include the Bardo session which is the ceremonial one that deals with patterns of past. Special price: $69. Email me at mayetleilani@icloud.com for further info or to schedule. SEE AFTER PS FOR FURTHER INFO.

Let’s explore the return to Love. When you are committed to Love, as we are, there arises the problem of people we have trouble loving. They may be a former partner who “did you wrong” or they may just be someone who always seems to grate you the wrong way. Either way, this can seem at odds with a commitment to love.

What to do when love doesn’t come easily? Let me share an exercise in love that I tried a number of years ago that worked so well I use it still. While not necessarily easy or comfortable to do, it’s not complicated. And I find it very useful, perhaps you will to.

Pause for a moment and think of the most difficult person in your life, past or present. It might be a former friend, an intimate partner, family member or work associate. It could be a politician, boss, co-worker, neighbor. Choose someone difficult for you tolerate (more…)

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The Sky Was Falling But I Laughed My Head Off

I’m offering a new phone/zoom NorthStar session at a special price.
It’s 50- minutes long and tailored to your individual needs.  Practical yet inspired information comes through from numerous sources to assist you.  See the PS below for details.

Sky falling image shows animals laughing at chicken Dear Chicken Little,

A funny thing happened to me yesterday.  I’m sure some version of this has happened to you too.  It was a Chicken Little moment when everything was falling down.

I approached my front door with three bags of groceries, my shoulder purse, water bottle and house keys; my mail was tucked under my chin.  I got the storm door open a slit with my only available finger then hooked my foot in and shouldered it wider while fumbling for the right key which I, of course, tried upside down.  

My purse strap threatened to slip off so I hunched that shoulder up while pressing my purse between my elbow and hip just in case, causing me to lose hold of my water bottle; it started to fall.  I tried to catch it against the door with a grocery bag; this knocked the water’s lid off.  It soaked the grocery bag before clanging down the steps.

The now soggy-bottomed grocery sack gave way and I desperately flailed about trying to save the eggs, managing to smack them down instead, covering my shoes with eggy goo into which my keys fell.  The other grocery bags, my mail and purse shortly followed.  Stunned 😳 and dismayed, I stood back empty-handed and speechless  for a shocked moment before busting out in gales of laughter.  

Why hadn’t I just put an item or two down on the bench next to the door before opening it?  That can’t be rationally explained can it?  My mind fixated on not needing to set things down and I blindly went to improbably ridiculous lengths to accomplish that, with disastrous results. (more…)

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Really Big Love and How to Have It, Part 11 The Problem with Love, The Secret of Love, The Surrender to Love

Article Highlights:

  • Love problems
  • Love’s secret
  • Love’s surrender

The secret to love I’m offering a new phone/zoom NorthStar session at a special price. It’s 50- minutes long and tailored to your individual needs.  Practical yet inspired information comes through from numerous sources to assist you.  See the PS below for details. Dear One,

Valentine’s Day is soon and our thoughts circle around love – it is a day we focus on love.  Whether on this day or any other, whether we focus on loving another or loving ourselves, there is a problem regarding love.  

Love’s problem is one we cannot overcome – at least not the way we generally go about it.  The problem with love is we can never fully and finally achieve it as long as we are loving in 3D.

3D love is something we need to do – making love an action verb. So we try to do it, we keep trying to love ourselves and others, and hoping to be loved.

As long as we approach it in 3D, we’ll sometimes do better at this and other times fall short. We’ll sometimes have success, feeling love for ourselves or another, but then we or they will shift or tilt, love will be disturbed – and so it goes. (more…)

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